Sunday 29 April 2007

7. Voila!

7. Voila!
At this point, your partner may or may not want you to make gentle fucking movements with your hand inside her, or stimulate her clit. Fisting produces extremely intense sensations for women, so ask her what feels good. When you抮e done, make your hand into the 搘edge?shape again, and gently slide out.

6. All the way in.

6. All the way in.
The knuckles are the widest part of the hand and the most difficult part to get past the opening of the vagina. You抣l probably run into resistance at that point. Wait until your partner is ready before making the big push. She may be able to help by 揵earing down?as if giving birth. Once your knuckles slip past the ring of muscles around the vaginal entrance, you抣l find your whole hand enveloped in warm, wet pussy. Now roll your hand into a fist.

5. Let her lead.

5. Let her lead.
Listen to your partner and let her tell you when to push, when to back off, when to add more fingers, and when it抯 too much. Fisting can cause vaginal muscle and tissue injuries if you go too fast or too hard. Some pain during fisting is normal, but you have to take her word on the difference between a 揼ood?hurt and a 揵ad?hurt.

4. Duck inside.

4. Duck inside.
As you add more fingers to your partner抯 cunt, squeeze them together so your index and pinkie fingers are under your middle and ring fingers. As you push further inside, tuck your thumb under your fingers. (Imagine you抮e making shadow puppets and trying to do a duck.) This makes your hand into a wedge shape that allows you to gradually stretch her open as you press on. Apply steady but slow pressure.

3. Start slow.

3. Start slow.
Start with one or two fingers and work your way up to three and then four. Most women need some time to further relax the muscles of their vagina, and some may require several 搒tretching?sessions, over weeks or even months, before you can actually get your whole hand in.
2. Use lube.
Even the wettest snatch can use some extra juice during fisting梩he more, the better. Two lubes I recommend are Astroglide and Liquid Silk. A latex glove can also reduce friction and is a good idea for safer sex purposes.

Fisting Made Easy

1. Get her ready.
Make sure your partner is relaxed, turned on, and comfortable. When a woman becomes aroused, her vagina relaxes, expands, and lengthens梐ll very important for accommodating a fist. Also, make sure your hand is very clean and your nails closely trimmed.